and i think i figured out why
ive had a dm hit me with afaction reset wand a couple times now and everything is fine for a while
but the monks of the way (monastery in NC territory) seem to be the same faction because pissing them off gets me killed by avendell mercs later that day every time.
this would be the 3rd time the avendel mercs have jumped me and looking back i had been to the monks earlier that day every time
is this intentional?